If you’ve been online at all over the past couple of years, you’ve likely scrolled by TikTok videos from Lucky Blue Smith and Nara Smith. Who knows, maybe you’ve even watched one or two of them. No judgment here!

The last time we talked about Nara — who is regularly associated with “tradwife” discourse, for what it’s worth — it was last month, when she was under fire for seemingly suggesting that she drank raw milk while pregnant. That video, by the way, has since been taken down.

In the video, Lucky reveals that one of the rules of their relationship is that he doesn’t let Nara drive — and if you think the rule is bizarre and regressive, let me assure you that his explanation is even worse.

“One thing I do is I drive no matter what,” Lucky said, before Nara added that she doesn’t even “attempt” to take the wheel if he’s in her physical presence. “I really get bothered when I see girls driving a guy,” he added. “I don’t know why. I just don’t like it.”
